Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Well things have definitely picked up around here.  John and I have had quite a bit of time off for the holidays...some good, some not so good.  The first half of our time together was quiet.  We looked a lot like this (when we were in the same room).

couple not talking (© iStockphoto.com/theprint)

Then we were blessed with some alone time when my in-laws took the kids for the night.  We were able to talk through some things and were finally communicating again.  We read a blog post or two together.  Everything was going great...then I opened my big fat mouth and had the tiniest bit of  an attitude.  I don't understand as I NEVER get an attitude with My Love *shrug*.  And I got spanked for it!  We were doing so well, just enjoying one another and he goes and spanks me!  Okay...he settling into his role...he's paying attention...I better behave.

Fast forward to the next day...I got spanked again!  What for? you ask...ATTITUDE!  I'm really starting to HATE that word!  And it was right before leaving for a New Year's Eve Party!  I do have to say though that I am extremely proud of myself.  After a few minutes of talking...

How would you feel if I let it slide since you seem to have realized that how you acted was uncalled for?

After thinking for a moment...

Do you want me to be honest?  Or should I just lie to you?

Honest...as always

Well, I think we've done that too much lately...

So do you want me to spank you then?

Well...do you want me to be honest?  Or should I just lie to you?

Haha!  

Are you laughing at me?  That's not very nice!

I'm sorry!  I know you don't like being spanked for punishment.  Let's get this taken care of now.

And with that he led me downstairs and we took care of my attitude.  I was very proud of him.  I know that he doesn't like spanking me either (at least not for punishment!)

So all of that was now behind us.  But this morning I was in trouble AGAIN!  Man I really suck at this...and here I was wanting him to be more consistent!  This time he said I was being disrespectful to his preferences.  I rolled my eyes and he was paying attention!  When did he start doing that?  Ugh! 

 

So he decided that some corner time was in order :(  That is NO fun!  He wouldn't even let me have my phone...big meanie!  But again we are in sync and living in a harmony that we have never experienced.  

Tomorrow is John's birthday!  And hopefully there will only be fun spankings :)  So Happy Birthday My Love!  Thank you for being the most amazing man I have ever known.  Thanks for putting up (not so much anymore! lol) with me and my attitude.  He's getting old so he won't be able to see that last part :) hehe!  I love you more than I ever thought was possible!  I hope that this next year brings you more joy and love than ever before.  








16 comments:

  1. LOL man oh man...and *I* have a halo as an ankle bracelet...( rolling my eyes at you!). Enjoy John's birhday tomorrow. You know what I'll be doing, sigh.

    Happy things are moving in the direction you desire.

    Love
    Willie

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    1. OOOHHHH! Good thing you're not here! John does not like eye rolling (apparently it's disrespectful! Ugh!)

      And I only know about your ankle bracelet cuz I've got one to match! lol!

      Tomorrow the kids go back to school so we'll have some time together...hopefully I can behave!

      Good Luck tomorrow :)

      P

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  2. Happy birthday to hubby. Being in sinc is worth a sore bottom..usually! LOL
    hugs abby

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    1. John says "Thanks!"

      I hate to admit it but it is usually worth it!

      Hugs back at ya

      P

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  3. LOL, don't bet on it - they have eyes like eagles....or didn't you figure that out when he saw the eye roll? You didn't mention the corner time :( Corner time would make me sad, Daddy doesn't use that, thank the Lord, it would kill me! No, seriously....abandonment issues and stuff - blech.

    Happy Birthday to John!

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    1. Thanks June! Thanks alot! (Note the sarcasm) Apparently I am a little slow because I did not think of him seeing my eye rolling when I posted this! It made John laugh when I read him what you wrote. And I did think corner time would kill me...yuck!

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  4. Hey P - There's a line from a song running through my head right now "Be careful whatcha ask for cause ya just might get it, just might get it, just might get it...". You did want John to be more consistent didn't you?

    BTW - better be careful with those small words, there is such a thing as reading and magnifying glasses, ya know. And comments about him getting older? He might just have to prove to you that he's not as old as you are implying. LOL

    Happy Birthday John - Wishing you a wonderful and loving day with your lovely and very well behaved wife. ;)

    Blessings,
    Cat

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    1. Wow! Thanks Cat! I think you and June up there just have it in for me! Please don't give him any ideas as he seems to be doing just fine all on his own!

      John says thanks for the birthday wishes and yes I intend to be a very well behaved wife :)

      P

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  5. Sometimes it seems like it goes that way - one thing after another, and then domestic bliss will settle in and everything will be just great.....it seems like you emerged from it all with a very good perspective and lots of respect for hubby....
    hugs
    lillie

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    1. Thanks for stopping in Lillie! I do have a new respect for him...it's odd, but it works :) I must admit that I'm a bit nervous of this new guy who's taken over my hubby's body...yikes!

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  6. Oh dear Lord....I can so relate to this! When I get myself in trouble, it seems to come in multiples....no one and done around here....sheesh! Corner time....been there....done that....and I HATE it....

    Here is hoping you got it allll out of your system...and can move on!

    Hugs....

    ~Lucy

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    1. Oh! Corner time is the worst! It's so boring and all I can think of are all the things I should be doing! Sssshhhh! Don't tell John...that WILL NOT make him a happy HOH.

      Hugs to you!

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  7. Oh dear P, it does sometimes happen one after the other like hat - sheesh.

    Well, it's a good thing he's paying attention isn't it? Sorry about all the spanking though :( Corner time, argh! Horrid isn't it, my hubby uses it too. You weren't allowed your phone? big meanie alright Lol

    Happy Birthday to John, I hope you have a wonderful today together.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Hey Roz!

      It is good that he's paying attention. I need the consistency as I tend to push boundaries...always have.

      And yes he is a Big Meanie! I told him that may be is new nickname around here. lol!

      And John said thanks for the birthday wishes...we had a good day just hanging out together :)

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  8. It sounds like a certain someone is getting his HoH groove on! :)

    Why is it that when they do that we subconsciously stick our toes over the line over and over and over again? It's like we are encouraging their practicing.

    It works though doesn't it...and I promise, you'll find your goodness again soon.

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    1. I know Susie! Who told him he could go and do that? I like that "encouraging their practice"...I'm going to steal that. It sounds so much better than bratting out :)

      My "good" girl has always been a bit fleeting. I'm more sarcastic and spirited than good, but she is being found...it's definitely a huge excavation process. Thanks for your support

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