John and I spent several hours today talking and reading a few blog posts that I really felt spoke to us and our situation. We had the most amazing discussions regarding ttwd, us, our future, how we see ttwd in our life, and other things along those lines.
Recently June and Ward posted about exercises in Dominance/submission. The post was excellent (as usual) as were the comments left by her readers. It gave me a lot to think about and I decided that I would share her post with John along with a few others.
We talked about the things that make him feel more Dominant. We talked about what makes me feel submissive. Oddly enough, they were almost exactly the same, with a few exceptions. He is my perfect match :D
This is my happy place...on a beach staring out a the turquoise Ocean water, under a palm tree...Can't you hear the hammock calling to John and I...
I feel like we actually got somewhere today. This is one of the first ttwd conversations that we have had recently that went well...really well. I am excited to be doing ttwd again. The last few weeks have been difficult for us where ttwd is concerned and I once again feel like we are walking together hand in hand into our amazing life!