Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Merry Christmas...and blah!

I hope you all have had a wonderful time with your friends and family over the last few days...and I hope that Santa brought you everything you deserved ")

This is the first time in a while that I've had a few minutes to sit down to write.  I have managed to keep up on my reading since I can do that from my phone.  It has been a source of comfort to know that the holidays are a crazy time for other DDer's as well.

I have tried to get this post up several times, but just don't really know what to say.  I feel bad that I have not posted in 2 weeks!  I'm sure you all understand...

We have been having a rough time over the past few weeks and I still cannot completely get it figured out in my head.  Don't worry!  We still love each other passionately, but I am not so sure that we are cut out for this lifestyle. Usually writing helps me to figure things out, but every time I sit down to write...nothing...I've got nothing!  

We talk.  We say, "we will start xyz...and that will help".  But then...nothing.  So then we talk again.  This time we say, "let's just chalk that up to a bad day for both of us".  Then...nothing.  From the amazing ladies I have talked to this is pretty common, but I'm not sure where that leaves us.  It doesn't help that I have been extra emotional lately.  Not sure if that is the holidays, the added stress they bring, being around family too much, or if I can blame it on PMS, but that is definitely not helping matters.  

I just feel kinda...blah where TTWD is concerned.  When I figure something out... I'll let you know!


  1. It's a stressful season and it's hard to maintain any sort of normalcy. Wait until things calm down and just respect each other. It might be enough.

  2. Starting out by sharing information through discussion is a wonderful way to begin. Having a set process that includes two scheduled Sit Down Discussions a week is highly suggested to keep things on track :)