Today is our 6 month DDversary. It has been an incredible journey. The highs have been intoxicating and the lows...well I've gotten intoxicated on more than one occasion. We have learned so much about each other. We have gotten much closer. This has been one of the best things we have ever done.
So I thought I try something different. Thought maybe some of you would like to hear from John since you always get to hear my side of things. Here we go:
1. What is the biggest change you have seen in our relationship?
Our communication. Before we never resolved anything, now we are able to talk things out until we are able to come to some sort of resolution. It doesn't always come easy or right away, but it's worth it.
2. Where have you seen the greatest growth in yourself?
My decision-making. I never made any decision concerning our family life other than my own personal life. Now I am in the position that I need to make decisions that affect everyone's life. I have to think things completely through and can't be rash in my thinking.
3. What is the greatest growth you've seen in me?
Your submission. You always took the lead and now you've put yourself in the position to follow me.
4. What is an area that you feel needs the most improvement?
Being more thoughtful of you. I need to make sure that I take time to focus on you and just you and what you need and what you want. I need to be able to read your body language, to be able to understand you better so that I can be better for you.
5. What is an area you feel I need the most improvement?
Attitude when things aren't going exactly your way. You have a tendency to digress to your old ways when things aren't going according to plan. It's not at all helpful to our new dynamic, but it's something that we're working on.